An interesting post by Scott Belsky . Here is the key idea
Choose to create or choose peace, but don’t fool yourself into believing you can have both in full force. Greatness is sparked in dark places.
Agree? One feels comfortable either just before a story begins or just after it climaxes and ends. There is a place for comfort. But life is not just about repetitive attempts to find comfort. Life is, at the end of the day, a story. our stories. And to live these stories, we need to understand that stories are based on meeting and overcoming conflict.