One of the most dangerous conditions we face in life — from a psychological point of view — is getting stuck. By that, i mean that we no longer see a way forward in our life story. It is — at least temporarily — over. This can happen for a wide variety of reasons. But when it happens, we are oin the defensive. We can only hold on until things change. And that, btw, is why many relationships fail. They are stuck in a negative cycle. Or they get frozen in disagreement.